A Tribute to My Father

By Uwa Osunde

How do you capture the essence of a man whose very presence was a testament to what humanity can achieve? My father’s story isn’t just one of personal triumph—it’s a roadmap for living with purpose, integrity, and unwavering love.

In a world increasingly defined by greed and corruption, my father stood as something rare:

His philosophical mind ranged far and wide, driven by an insatiable passion for knowledge and an unshakeable desire to make an indelible difference in people’s lives. He didn’t seek fame, money, or glory—his unconditional generosity was reward enough. Whether with friends, family, coworkers, or complete strangers, he possessed this remarkable ability to make everyone feel comfortable, valued, and heard.

His greatest passion was his sincere dedication to fighting for the common man and addressing the plight of the masses. Even to his own detriment, he spent most of his time championing this cause that struck such a personal chord with him. It brings tears to my eyes knowing all the lives he touched, often without those people ever knowing the depth of his sacrifice on their behalf.

What made him truly remarkable was his courage and dogged survival against impossible odds. Through every hardship, his character remained unshakeable, his convictions unwavering. He never backed down from his beliefs, not for one moment.

Perhaps most remarkably, there was his enduring love for my mother—his wife and partner in a marriage that lasted forty years. Their relationship wasn’t without its frailties and tensions, but it was strong both in spite of and because of these challenges. I grew up witnessing what genuine partnership looks like, learning from a surprisingly nontraditional man who showed me that love perseveres.

I loved my father deeply, though I didn’t always show it and probably let him down at times. Yet his love for me never faded—it remained constant, unconditional, and transformative.

As I reflect on the legacy he left us, I find treasures that money cannot buy: a hunger for knowledge, a passion for helping others aspire to greater heights, an example of a life whose riches owe little to material wealth, a sense that anything is possible through hard work, and a model of what a father should be. These are his gifts to us.

Though he wasn’t outwardly revealing about his religious convictions, as my father neared his end, he knew with certainty that God was his Creator and strength, and Jesus was his salvation.

This would be what he’d want—for us to look at each other and appreciate what we have together, and what we hope to make better. His legacy lives on not in monuments or accolades, but in the values he instilled, the lives he touched, and the love that continues to guide us forward.

Uwa Osunde

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